Whether  you are just in the beginning stages of planning your wedding or knee deep into it, a great resource is The Knot.  In the Bride's Room, we recommend their book.  However, registering with The Knot website will also bring you a wealth of information as well as their Wedding 911 iPhone Application.  

I registered myself so I can continue to be helpful to my clients.  As the wedding photographer, I can't just be looking through the lens.  I feel I have to see things from the bride's perspective as well.  The Knot makes good and necessary reading for me and I think it will for you as well.